Showing posts with label Test. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Test. Show all posts

Thursday, January 5, 2012

★THE BEST EXAM★

When we are in Examination Rooms;
► We are not allowed to Copy or Cheat from others,
► We are not allowed to open a book when we Forget,
► We are not allowed to Help anyone else to pass the Exam!

How Easy is the Exam from ALLAH
► We are totally Allowed to Copy the Righteous and the Pious,
► We always have the Book :(Quran) to open when we Forget.
► We are even Encouraged to Help others in this Exam...and by doing so we get bonus points too [reward similar to theirs].

I Love ALLAH And His Wonderful Deen




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Wednesday, November 16, 2011

 At the Very Least, Be Grateful




By Andrea Umm Abdullah | Saudi Life
Monday, 14 November 2011

THERE are so many programs and books about how to be happy that it makes me wonder if we have forgotten to simply be grateful. Gratefulness and patience go hand in hand; being grateful helps one to be patient (because maybe things aren’t so bad and after all, things could be worse) and when a person is grateful and patient then there is contentment, insha’Allah.

There are probably a lot of things in your life right now that you don’t prefer, from small, insignificant things to bigger things.

Some days are full of things gone wrong. Even some months, we can look up and think, “This is not where I want to be right now.”

I’ve realized we don’t have to necessarily want everything that happens to us, let alone like it, but at the very least, we need to be grateful.

The Prophet (peace be upon him) told us:

"Look at those who stand at a lower level than you but don't look at those who stand at a higher level than you, for this would make the favors (conferred upon you by Allah) insignificant (in your eyes)." (Sahih Muslim) And it’s true.

We look at all the things that have gone wrong and think about people who don’t have to deal with those things, and as a result, we forget about all we have or we consider it small.

Just the very fact that you are online reading this article already means you have so much more than so many other people in the world.

It can be saddening to even have the audacity to complain about our comfortable lives. If you are having a hard time at work, step back and say, “Alhamdulilah, I have a job.” If you are stuck in traffic, think “Alhamdulilah, I have the means to get around.” When the house is a mess and the dishes are dirty, say, “Alhamdulilah, I have shelter and food.”

I read a testimonial a few days ago. A woman said, “I remember eating a raw potato once, because I was so hungry and I had to eat since I was breastfeeding.” Subhanallah.

We want so much more. Well, maybe not so much, just a little bit more right? It’s okay if things aren’t perfect, but at least we should have basic luxuries. The fact that we consider these luxuries ‘basic’, makes us forget that they are still in fact luxuries that a lot of people don’t have. When I didn’t have running water in my house last week, my daughter and I both commented on how tough it was living like that and when it came back, we kept saying, “Alhamdulilah we have water”.

Be grateful now. Ibn Ata’Allah said, "If you do not know the blessings you have when you have them, then Allah will teach you about them by taking them away." Don’t wait until you are without, to appreciate what you have. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said to "Take advantage of five matters before five other matters: your youth, before you become old; and your health, before you fall sick; and your richness, before you become poor; and your free time before you become busy; and your life, before your death." (Al-Hakim)

I remember a science project in school to teach us how useful our thumbs are. We had to secure our thumbs down across our palms and go about daily life that way, without being able to use our thumbs. It’s more difficult than you would think.

The reality is we can’t choose our tests. I find it amazing that our tests are individual-specific. Allah is Most Wise and when He tests one with poverty while testing another with illness, there is actually wisdom in it. Testing the first person with illness instead of poverty wouldn’t have the same affect.

There are enough verses in the Qur'an about how we will be tested so why then do I feel so unprepared when the test actually hits me? Why do we feel like we are being knocked off of our feet? Maybe it is because we are firmly grounded in this life.



“Whoever is mainly concerned about the Hereafter, Allah will make him feel independent of others and will make him focused and content, and his worldly affairs will fall into place. But whoever is mainly concerned with this world, Allah will make him feel in constant need of others and will make him distracted and unfocused, and he will get nothing of this world except what is decreed for him." (Al-Tirmidhi)

And that’s what happens. We’re always looking beyond what we have, looking for more. Humans are greedy. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "If the son of Adam (the human being) had two valleys of gold, he would wish for a third, for nothing can fill the belly of Adam's son except dust, and Allah forgives him who repents to Him." (Al-Bukhari)

Think back to when we didn’t have so much stuff. Internet, kitchen appliances, apps on our phones, furniture… life was less cluttered, less busy, but we were still okay. Yes, it’s easy to have things at your fingertips, easier and quicker to chop onions in the food processor, convenient to look up things on your phone instead of books, but it seems the more we have, the more we want.

  • Don’t use your blessings to accumulate sins. We can choose to use our tongues to backbite or dhikr. We can use our wealth for riba (usury) or sadaqa (charity).

  • Don’t belittle your blessings by thinking, “Yeah I have this, but…” For example, “Yes I’m glad I have my food processer, but I need a bigger one so I can chop twice as many veggies and oh – I need one with the different attachments and the blender too.” Stop after you say, “Yes I have this” and allow that to be enough.

  • Look at the big picture. Often times we compartmentalize our lives. I could say, “Yes, masha’Allah I was able to go back to my home country and see my family this summer, but I would have really liked to use that money to save for a bigger home.” Although they are two different situations and at first they seem not to have anything to do with one another, by keeping our life in little segments, we will never be content because there will always be some area that is lacking. By stepping back and seeing life as a whole, you can be content even when one area is not as fulfilling as you would like.

  • Train yourself to be grateful for your tests. Contemplate what you could possibly gain from the trial instead of focusing on the pain.


Remember that Allah tests us with good and bad. In good times, be grateful and in hardship, be patient.


Challenge:
Whether you are in a state of hardship or ease, offer a prostration of gratefulness and sincerely thank Allah for things that you have before you start to ask for things that you don’t.



SOURCE:
SAUDI
Life
http://saudilife.net/islam/87-challenges/21193-at-the-very-least-be-grateful#comment-3016

Monday, August 15, 2011

5 Reasons Why Allah Tests Us

Allah tests His believing servants with various types of crises and disasters in order to:

1) Reveal the Patient from the Impatient:

وَلَنَبْلُوَنَّكُمْ بِشَيْءٍ مِنَ الْخَوْفِ وَالْجُوعِ وَنَقْصٍ مِنَ الْأَمْوَالِ وَالْأَنْفُسِ وَالثَّمَرَاتِ ۗ وَبَشِّرِ الصَّابِرِينَالَّذِينَ إِذَا أَصَابَتْهُمْ مُصِيبَةٌ قَالُوا إِنَّا لِلَّهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ

أُولَـٰئِكَ عَلَيْهِمْ صَلَوَاتٌ مِنْ رَبِّهِمْ وَرَحْمَةٌ ۖ وَأُولَـٰئِكَ هُمُ الْمُهْتَدُونَ

“And certainly, We shall test you with a bit of fear, hunger, loss of wealth, lives and fruits. But give glad tidings to the patient ones who, when afflicted with a calamity, say: “Truly! To Allah we belong and truly, to Him we shall return.” They are those upon whom are the blessings, descend from their Lord, and they receive His Mercy, and it is they who are guided.” (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:155-157)

وَمِنَ النَّاسِ مَنْ يَعْبُدُ اللَّهَ عَلَىٰ حَرْفٍ ۖ فَإِنْ أَصَابَهُ خَيْرٌ اطْمَأَنَّ بِهِ ۖ وَإِنْ أَصَابَتْهُ فِتْنَةٌ انْقَلَبَ عَلَىٰ وَجْهِهِ خَسِرَ الدُّنْيَا وَالْآخِرَةَ ۚ ذَ‌ٰلِكَ هُوَ الْخُسْرَانُ الْمُبِينُ

“And among mankind is he who worships Allah as if he were upon the very edge (i.e. in doubt); if good befalls him, he is content with it;. But if a trial befalls him, he turns back on his face. He loses both this World and the Hereafter. That is the evident loss.”(Surah al-Haj 22:11)

“So, it is a must for the souls to be nurtured by way of tests, and to be severely tested during the course of the battle between truth and falsehood with fear and hardship, and with hunger and decrease in wealth and life and fruits. This testing is a necessity so that the believer can give his share of what his belief requires; so that it becomes dear to him in accordance with that he gives for its sake of sacrifice and burden; so that it becomes dear to him in accordance with what he is willing to give for its sake! The bearers of worthless beliefs that do not require any type of sacrifice will not hesitate to abandon their beliefs at the first sign of hardship. So, the burden here is the personal price that one pays so that this belief becomes dear and valuable in the hearts of its bearers before it becomes dear to the hearts of anyone else. Whenever they experience pain for its sake, and every single time they are forced to give something up for its sake, it becomes even dearer and more valuable to them, and they become even more honored with it. With this, nobody else will realize its value until they see how its bearers are tested because of it and how patient they are upon such tests.”

(‘Fi Dhilal al-Qur’an’; 1/145)



2) Remove Our Sins and Reward the Righteous:


فَلَمَّا بَلَغَ مَعَهُ السَّعْيَ قَالَ يَا بُنَيَّ إِنِّي أَرَىٰ فِي الْمَنَامِ أَنِّي أَذْبَحُكَ فَانْظُرْ مَاذَا تَرَىٰ ۚ قَالَ يَا أَبَتِ افْعَلْ مَا تُؤْمَرُ ۖ سَتَجِدُنِي إِنْ شَاءَ اللَّهُ مِنَ الصَّابِرِينَفَلَمَّا أَسْلَمَا وَتَلَّهُ لِلْجَبِينِ

وَنَادَيْنَاهُ أَنْ يَا إِبْرَاهِيمُقَدْ صَدَّقْتَ الرُّؤْيَا ۚ إِنَّا كَذَ‌ٰلِكَ نَجْزِي الْمُحْسِنِينَإِنَّ هَـٰذَا لَهُوَ الْبَلَاءُ الْمُبِينُوَفَدَيْنَاهُ بِذِبْحٍ عَظِيمٍ

“And, when he was old enough to walk with him, he said: “O my son! I have seen in a dream that I am slaughtering you, so what do you think?” He said: “O my father! Do that which you are commanded, if Allah Wills, you will find me to be of the patient.” Then, when they had both submitted, and he had laid him prostrate on his forehead, and We called out to him: “O Ibrahim! You have fulfilled the dream!” Verily! Such do We reward the good-doers.” (Surah as-Saffat :102-7)

Sa’ad bin Abi Waqqas reported that he asked the Messenger of Allah (SAW): “Which of the people are tested most severely?” Rasulullah (SAW) replied: “The Prophets, then the righteous, then those who are most like them, then those who are most like them from the people. A man is tested according to his religious commitment. So, if his religious practice is sound, then his testing is increased, and if his religious practice is weak, then his testing is reduced. A servant continues to be tested until he walks the Earth without a single sin on him.” (Ahmad, Tirmidhi)


3) Purify the Ranks and Distinguish the Righteous from the Wicked:


مَا كَانَ اللَّهُ لِيَذَرَ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ عَلَىٰ مَا أَنْتُمْ عَلَيْهِ حَتَّىٰ يَمِيزَ الْخَبِيثَ مِنَ الطَّيِّبِ ۗ وَمَا كَانَ اللَّهُ لِيُطْلِعَكُمْ عَلَى الْغَيْبِ وَلَـٰكِنَّ اللَّهَ يَجْتَبِي مِنْ رُسُلِهِ مَنْ يَشَاءُ ۖ فَآمِنُوا بِاللَّهِ وَرُسُلِهِ ۚ وَإِنْ تُؤْمِنُوا وَتَتَّقُوا فَلَكُمْ أَجْرٌ عَظِيمٌ

“Allah will not leave the believers in the state in which you are now until He distinguishes the wicked from the good.” (Surah Al ‘Imrân 3:179)

وَلَمَّا رَءَا ٱلۡمُؤۡمِنُونَ ٱلۡأَحۡزَابَ قَالُواْ هَـٰذَا مَا وَعَدَنَا ٱللَّهُ وَرَسُولُهُ ۥ وَصَدَقَ ٱللَّهُ وَرَسُولُهُ ۥ‌ۚ وَمَا زَادَهُمۡ إِلَّآ إِيمَـٰنً۬ا وَتَسۡلِيمً۬ا

“And when the believers saw the Confederates, they said: “This is what Allah and His Messenger had promised us, and Allah and His Messenger had spoken the truth,” and it only added to their faith and submissiveness.” (Surah Ahzaab 33:22)

“Allah might make easy the affairs of the people of evil so that they may increase in sin and corruption, and so that they might increase in their buildup of sins and crimes. Then, he may deal with them in this World or the Hereafter – depending on His Wisdom and Decision – on account of this sinister buildup of deeds! On the other hand, He may also prevent them from ease so that they would increase in evil and sin and crimes and suffocation, eventually losing hope in the Mercy of Allah, resulting in an increase in their buildup of evil and misguidance. Likewise, Allah can make easy the affairs of the people of good so that they may become established in their righteous actions and carry out as much of them as they can while increasing in their sustenance, so that they may thank Him for these blessings with their hearts, tongues, and pleasant actions. With all of this, they increase in a buildup of good deeds that they rightfully deserve with Allah because of their righteousness and because of the good that Allah Knows is in their hearts. On the other hand, he may also prevent them from ease in order to observe their patience upon this state, as well as their confidence and hope in their Lord, their relaxation at the realization of His Power, their being pleased with Him as their only Lord – and He is better than all others – resulting in an increase in their buildup of good.”

(Fi Dhilal al-Qur’an)


4) Emphasize the Hardships of This World in Comparison to the Hereafter:


تَبَارَكَ الَّذِي بِيَدِهِ الْمُلْكُ وَهُوَ عَلَىٰ كُلِّ شَيْءٍ قَدِيرٌالَّذِي خَلَقَ الْمَوْتَ وَالْحَيَاةَ لِيَبْلُوَكُمْ أَيُّكُمْ أَحْسَنُ عَمَلًا ۚ وَهُوَ الْعَزِيزُ الْغَفُورُ

“Blessed is He in Whose Hand is the kingdom, and He is Able to do all things. The One Who has created death and life in order to test you and see which of you is best in deed, and He is the All-Mighty, the Oft-Forgiving.” (Surah al-Mulk 67:1-2)


5) Expose the Reality of the Human Being:


إِنَّا خَلَقْنَا الْإِنْسَانَ مِنْ نُطْفَةٍ أَمْشَاجٍ نَبْتَلِيهِ فَجَعَلْنَاهُ سَمِيعًا بَصِيرًاإِنَّا هَدَيْنَاهُ السَّبِيلَ إِمَّا شَاكِرًا وَإِمَّا كَفُورًا

“Verily, We have created man from drops of mixed semen in order to test him, so We made him hearer, seer. Verily, We showed him the way, so he is either grateful or ungrateful.” (Surah al-Insan 76: 2-3)

إِنَّا جَعَلْنَا مَا عَلَى الْأَرْضِ زِينَةً لَهَا لِنَبْلُوَهُمْ أَيُّهُمْ أَحْسَنُ عَمَلًا

“Verily, We have made that which is on earth as an adornment for it so that We may test them as to which of them are best in deeds.” (Surah al-Kahf 18:7)

وَهُوَ الَّذِي جَعَلَكُمْ خَلَائِفَ الْأَرْضِ وَرَفَعَ بَعْضَكُمْ فَوْقَ بَعْضٍ دَرَجَاتٍ لِيَبْلُوَكُمْ فِي مَا آتَاكُمْ ۗ إِنَّ رَبَّكَ سَرِيعُ الْعِقَابِ وَإِنَّهُ لَغَفُورٌ رَحِيمٌ

“And it is He Who has made you generations after generations, replacing each other on the earth. And He has raised you in ranks – some above others – that He may test you in that which He has bestowed on you. Surely, your Lord is Swift in retribution, and certainly He is Oft*-Forgiving, Most Merciful.” (Surah al-An’am 6:165)

“A human being is tested so that he may come to know the reality of himself and others. Life is consists of constant testing; testing with what is bad, or testing with what is good. However, what is best for the believer may be found in what he hates, and what is bad for him may be found in what he likes. The true believer is the one who loves that which Allah has chosen for him. So, if He tests him with something that he loves, he thanks Him, and if He tests him with that which he hates, he is patient and thanks Him in this case, as well. And Allah – the Glorified – gives the believer in accordance with what will lead to his happiness in either this World or the next. So, if it is better for him to have something, Allah gives it to him. If it is better for him not to have something, Allah prevents him from having that thing, just as one who is sick is prevented from too much food or water. Therefore, it is upon a person to completely submit to Allah – the Glorified – in regards to what He has chosen for him, and to be pleased with what Allah has given him, and to understand that if Allah prevents him from something, then it is because Allah wishes to save him from being tested with that thing.”



SOURCE:
http://amuslimsistermaria200327.wordpress.com/2009/08/11/5-reasons-on-why-does-allah-test-us/