Question:
Firstly he likes me in 'that way', but I definitely do not intend on
pursuing a relationship with him. Before I thought to myself that I
would just ignore him seeing as we had no future together/ nothing in
common (he is a musician, swears a bit and can be quite rude). He always
treats me good though, and although many other girls try to pursue him
he seems to only like me (apologies if I sound arrogant). I think the
reason for this is because he indirectly likes my Islamic qualities
(chastity, honesty, respect my teachers etc.), and lately I have thought
to myself a lot 'he probably wants to be Muslim, but does not know what
Islam is yet'.
I know he grew up in a non religious family, and he's one of those people
who look for a deeper meaning to life (I guess in his case he thought
it was music). So my question is, should I mention Islam to him, and if
so, how do I? e.g. just bring it up in a conversation?
Answer:
Salaam Sis,
Of course da'wah is important in Islam. But I
don't think that it's your responsibility in this situation. You know
that the guy likes you and once you're alone with him Shaytan will
create situations for you to do sin.
Shaytan has already made you think that he likes you for your "chastity,
honesty, respect" etc. This makes your heart draw closer to him. Not
realizing that if you give him da'wah this allows the two of you to be
alone and one thing could lead to another thus your "chastity, honesty,
and respect" will be taken away just like that.
I think you should stay away from him, because if others find out he
likes you, gossiping will start and the first thing you will lose in
those people's mind is your Chastity. Once people will start thinking of
you that way your respect and honesty will go too.
You have more to loss here as a Muslimah than you think.
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